Love is the strongest force in the universe. We want to love and to be loved.

Many people have found their partner and want to keep that connection alive, deepen it and continue to grow together. Others feel that something between them has been lost and are looking for a way back to greater closeness and connection.

And then there are those who come home alone in the evening and long for someone with whom they can share their life.

For them in particular, this text begins with a wonderful thought:

That person is already out there.

As you read these words, that person is somewhere on this Earth, living an ordinary life. Getting up in the morning, having breakfast, working, shopping, meeting friends, going to the bathroom and eventually going to bed tonight.

Perhaps alone, or still in a relationship that is coming to an end.

Where are you, my love?

There are suitable partners for every person. This is part of the Creator’s plan. People with whom love, closeness and mutual development are possible. People whose fundamental outlook on life is compatible and whose different strengths complement one another.

Life is abundance. And that abundance includes the relationship a person may have been longing for.

So there is every reason to look ahead with an open heart, joy and confidence.

An Image Begins to Form

A happy relationship is the result of an act of will. Anyone who desires a happy partnership has made an inner decision for it. Will creates images and thoughts.

How do I want to live with my partner? What connects us? What does our home together feel like? How do we treat one another? What do we experience together? How do we want to grow?

In the PlusX2 Dream Album, these ideas can become visible. Your future partner does not need a face yet. Life will surprise us.

Goal setting also brings clarity to the inner image:

I live with my husband or my wife in a loving, faithful and harmonious relationship. We understand and complement one another, support each other and grow together.

This gives the desire a direction.

And then it needs movement.

When Desire Becomes Reality

Never before have there been so many opportunities to meet another person. Dating platforms and social networks connect people across cities, countries and continents.

Often, it all begins with an image. A face appeals to us. A smile touches something within us. We read a few lines, begin writing to each other and form an idea of who this person might be.

It can be the beginning of a great love story. And eventually, that person is actually standing in front of us.

Now something happens that no profile and no screen can replace:

Our inner perception “switches on.”

It is that first impression, the perception of our spirit, that tells us whether this person is “the right one.” Before the intellect has classified and evaluated everything, that inner perception is already there.

Life experience confirms it: You never get a second chance to make a first impression. And that first impression is right.

This is why meeting in person remains so valuable. The internet can open a door. A photograph can be exactly the impulse through which two people find each other.

But eventually they stand face to face, look into each other’s eyes and perceive one another.

That is when truly getting to know each other begins.

Love Seeks Growth

Falling in love can bring two people together. Love gives depth to the path they share.

Love is what benefits the other person above all spiritually.

When we love someone, we want to see that person grow. And this works in both directions.

Two people develop as individuals and support one another. A shared fundamental outlook connects them, while their differences allow them to learn from each other.

As a man and a woman, they can complement each other wonderfully in this way.

This is how a relationship stays alive.

Love, loyalty and justice belong together.

Loyalty begins long before physical actions. It begins in our thoughts.

Being loyal to the person by our side also means remaining loyal in our inner attitude, keeping our thoughts toward that person pure and honoring what we have created together. This includes the values on which the relationship was built, as well as the goals toward which both partners have chosen to move together.

As we develop spiritually, loyalty takes on an ever deeper meaning. It becomes a conscious decision for the person with whom we share our life and for everything that has grown between us.

Justice is part of this.

True love and genuine loyalty require a shared sense of what is just. This sense of justice reaches far beyond the relationship itself: it reveals itself in the way we treat other people, animals, nature and everything we encounter in our shared life.

When two people feel similarly about these things, a deep harmony emerges. Many matters no longer require lengthy discussions because both act from the same inner foundation.

This creates trust. And on this foundation, two people can open themselves to one another, continue to develop and meet each other anew even after many years together.

Then their love carries them through time.

What I Give Returns to Me

Behind this stands one of the great laws of life: the law of reciprocal action.

What we give to the world returns to us.

This also applies to love.

Anyone who longs for a life partner can begin living love today – in the way we treat other people, animals and nature, in our friendships and in our everyday encounters.

This is exactly what the red activities in PlusX2 represent. They stand for love, warmth and friendship.

The same principle offers a key for an existing relationship. Anyone who feels that closeness has faded can turn their attention back to what they themselves are bringing into the relationship.

What do I love about the other person?

What once brought two people together can be brought to life again. They can become more conscious of each other and make a renewed decision to continue their path together.

Because love lives through what we put into it.

Encounters Have a History

We can assume that our life on Earth is part of a much greater development and that we have already lived many earthly lives.

This is why we meet people again.

Some stories continue, while others are waiting to be brought to completion. And sometimes a person suddenly stands before us with whom we feel an immediate familiarity that can hardly be explained by this life alone.

Unusual constellations, such as a significant age difference, can also have a deeper connection when viewed from this perspective.

This also changes the way we look at relationships that eventually come to an end.

A relationship gains its value through what two people experience together and what they bring about in each other’s lives. Some accompany one another for part of the journey, others throughout an entire earthly life.

And some connections reach beyond it.

We Are Guided

As creations of God, we also walk this path with spiritual help.

Spiritual friends and helpers accompany us and give us impulses that guide our paths in a particular direction.

Suddenly the thought arises to attend a particular event. An invitation feels right. A journey changes. We discover an image on the internet and pause to look at it. On an ordinary day, we take a different route and meet someone because of it.

So much in our lives comes together in remarkable ways.

Anyone who longs for a life partner can therefore turn to God with a joyful heart and deep gratitude. We can ask for help in finding the right inner attitude, remaining attentive and recognizing the signs and impulses we are given.

Then comes our part.

We move.

Giving Life the Opportunity

This is exactly where spiritual alignment and PlusX2 come together.

The Dream Album allows the life we desire to take shape before our inner eye. Goal setting brings clarity. The red activities take us out into the world. In the Success Journal, we record what develops from it.

For anyone looking for a partner, being active is important. Going out, meeting people, accepting invitations, attending events, travelling, starting conversations or opening a dating platform.

And remaining attentive when an inner impulse says:

Go there today.

Because somewhere out there, the other person is living their life too.

Who knows, perhaps that person receives the same impulse today.

And so two people independently decide to go to a place where their paths cross for the very first time.

That morning, neither of them knew anything about the other.

By evening, a new story has begun.

This is how life writes its stories.

And this is exactly why we can look ahead with an open and joyful heart.

That person is out there.
Life is abundance.
Love is part of it.

We encounter it when we set ourselves in motion.

Visualize. Manifest. Experience.

Holger J. Sonnenwald